Love of This World

Why is some people can be so easy come easy go towards their relationship? And they will get whatever they want.

Why is some people always pay off their everything in a relationship blindly and without ask for any repay? And what they get is always the sad ending, heartbroken ending.

Why is some people will easily forget about how eager are they to start the relationship with the one they really "Love" for at first of all? And they act like wanna throw away the relationship such as it looks like a burden to him/her.

Love, fool people. And Love, where people are fooled. 

So many kinds of love in the world. And now I'm talking about the love between man and woman.

I don't really sure if is it fixed that the one who loves the deepest the one who will get hurt at the end. But what have I seen around me, including my own experiences, it seems correct. Who loves the deepest, the easiest he/she will get hurt. Isn't that cruel? Why must be the one who loves the deepest get hurt? Because their partner never ever pay off the same and never precious their love. Why? Unfair.

Case I

He left a girl, Angie because of the other girl, Mandy. He told Angie that he loved Mandy in the way she is. Independence, self-confidence self-esteem, cheerful, sporting and so on. Described like no other can be compared with her. Angie cried, cried of sadness and be self-abased. She left. And soon he was together with the girl he dreamed for, Mandy. Not that long time, he left Mandy. He hurt Mandy so deep in the way that outsider could never imaging. Mandy gives him all he asked for and at the end Mandy lost much more than she can afford...He soon started his new life with the other girl. What can I say?

Case II

A girl lost her love one. And soon meet with a new one, who really really pamper her and love her more than the past one. She accepted this one. She was so in love with the one, she told her friends, like she has met the right one. Only in a short time. She felt that they aren't that sweet than before, feeling just can't correct. She asked for break. She totally forget abut, her happiness at first. What can I say?

Can I point that whose the wrong one? I think I can't. There are no mean of correct or wrong in a relationship...? I really really don't know. 

I will admire when I see two old couple, jogging in the morning. They aren't talking sweet things but keep babbling about the life's unsatisfying. Then, is raining. The old uncle faster takes out an umbrella, and opens it holds it for his old partner. They walk slowly, with keep babbling...I wonder how many things they had came through along the years since they get married. I wonder how deep is their love to hold them together after so many years. Their love with no such beautifully romantic stuff, but their love is permanently, and strong than the teenagers' or the adult's love which always hanging those words of "Love" and "Forever" everyday. The only thing I know is, they never simply think of "break up" or "divorce" no matter what had happened. They live in the world of two people, isn't their own.

My friend told me about a cruel thing she had gone through. She had a baby, and her boyfriend brought her to abort it. And after the abortion, her boyfriend left her. I can imaging, how was the girl's feeling. She loves him, gives him everything. And she had their, or her very first child in her life. the little child. As a mother, she imaging how will the little baby looks like, and what if the baby can born, how will be her life...? But she is still very young! How can she faces this all? She was in scare...And her stupid boyfriend brought her to abort! It was an operation. She killed her own baby by herself. Can you imagine the girl's feeling?...I do, and I cry for her experience. She has sacrificed so so much to the only guy she loves and what she wants is only the guy's love...Is that too much? I think what has she paid is far more much than what she expects for. 

I'm now in a relationship. A simple relationship with not that much problems. Everything seems just fine, but who know what's going to happen in the future? Love isn't guaranteed us forever, Love isn't for the purpose to be forever anymore. Love isn't simple as human change to become greedy and greedy. 

All of us who really serious towards the relationship will always confuse and wonder, what can I do, so that my love will guarantee me forever? I believe they will do anything if there are any way to get it, if there are any way...But there aren't any way.

People always said, Love isn't that precious if it can always last forever, Love can be prettier if we only have it for some days in our life time...I say that all bullshit! Love, is that so holy that God gives us the ability to love a person, so that our love can last for forever and forever. That's only the love is beautiful.

Love, how good is if it is simple and last forever?